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Eight Months at Home in New Jersey, and Elsewhere 

June 2022 – February 2023: Ending our second long-term travel, we flew back to the USA at the start of June 2022. While back in the States, we enjoyed our newly remodeled apartment home in Jersey City, shared with our daughter Brittany, her husband Benny, and three grandchildren — Bea, Beck, and Baxter. When remodeling their 4-story home, Brittany and Benny created a 1BR apartment on the lower level for us to return to and to Air BnB when not in use by us or another friend or family member.  The opening photo overlooks Jersey City, near Hamilton Park. I took it from the rooftop of the temporary apartment Britt and family lived in for a year while the construction and renovation  was underway in their home. 

Our 600 +/- SF apartment prior to move in. We are on the lower level of Brittany and Benny's 4-story home.
After a few additions, we made this space very comfortable. We love it!
The kitchen is quite roomy. Not much counter space, but with the island, it works!
We loved when the kids would come down to our apartment and just hang out.
They would read and chill while Evan might play his guitar and I prepare dinner.
Baking with Beck: We're making Razzleberry pie, one of Beck's favorites. Perhaps we used too much sugar this time. It's way too sweet!
Evan is making pizza with Baxter. Evan is known for his Friday night homemade pizzas.
I loved being able to see Bea's performances at camp and her singing debut at Next Step Broadway.
During our eight months back in Jersey City and the US, we made it through a full round of birthdays and holidays.

When school resumed in the fall, Sara worked with Baxter again and Evan worked with Beck after school, to get homework done and improve reading. It was also great to visit more often with our other daughters, Tauren and Lindsey, and Lindsey’s wife Margarita, since they all live nearby. Our time with family was precious. 

We are capturing Britt and Benny capturing the kids first day of school!
Evan would read with Beck for 30 minutes almost every day. First Beck would read to Evan, and then Evan would read to Beck. Baxter would occasionally join in if his homework was finished.
When the weather was nice, Baxter and I would sit outside on the front steps (stoop) and do his homework.
When everyone's schedule worked, I'd meet Tauren, Lindsey and Margarita in Manhattan for an afternoon. Lindsey and Margarita were on Summer break and Tauren was in town for a short time before heading out for another show. Brittany was working this day and couldn't join us.

But we also got out a bit. We spent a summer month in Port Orange, Florida visiting with our best buds, Ann and John, and with our son Brendan and his fiancé, Jule, in JacksonvilleWe missed our friends Linda and Michael because they were in New York. However, once again, they graciously let us stay in their Florida home while they were away.  Florida summers are hot, but we enjoyed our visit.  

A evening out with our friends, Ann & John and Tara & Scott. We do miss our Florida friends
Some of the best moments were those times with all my daughters together. Although we live fairly close to each other, it's not always easy to coordinate schedules.

Many of our plans while back in the States were changed. In July Sara started having problems with her “good left knee” and had great difficulty walkingAfter many trips to an Orthopedic doctor, weeks of physical therapy, and a cortisone shot with no relief, an MRI revealed a torn Meniscus. Surgery was quickly scheduled in September to allow enough recovery time to attend Brendan and Jule’s wedding in October. Instead of traveling to Seattle and Ashville to visit family and friends as well as other adventures in and around NYC, our summer and fall included doctor’s appointments and physical therapy three times per week. We LOVE to walk and explore, but it just didn’t happen this summer and fall. Sara’s left knee is much improved, but now she’s struggling with her right knee. To prepare for our travels she had gel injections in both knees in November and December to cushion the joints.   A big shout out from Sara to the team at Spine and Sports Center in Jersey City  and to Sam at Total Orthopedics.  “You made this travel possible for me!” 

Getting around on crutches wasn't easy. Fortunately I was able to hobble around without them less than a week after surgery. But it took months to walk without a lot of pain. This was really hard for me since we usually do so much walking.
It was great to be in Jersey City for all the Birthdays. This is Beck's 10th Birthday.
We made it back just in time for Bea's 12th birthday party.
Baxter celebrating his 7th birthday.
When possible, I travel to see Tauren perform in her shows. I caught two shows this year, but I missed Mamma Mia in North Carolina: it was too soon after my surgery.
I flew to St Louis to see Tauren in " In the Heights," one of my favorites! Tauren and I had a wonderful 3 days making it a great mother-daughter weekend.

In October we returned to Jacksonville to celebrate Brendan & Jule’s wedding. Lindsey and Margarita were there, all the B’s made it down, and even Melissa came all the way from the northwest coast. Unfortunately, Tauren couldn’t be there in person because of a show, but she attended remotely. It was a lovely and lively wedding, officiated by our dear friend Rev. Kathy Rickey, to whom we are so grateful. The service and reception were held at a Jacksonville craft beer pub, the Hyperion.  Our best friends Ann & John, Linda & Michael and Luci & Matt were there too. And we met many of Jules family who also traveled quite some distance.  We are so happy to welcome Jule as part of our family. We absolutely love her! 

Brendan with family and friends before we all walk over for the wedding ceremony. We rented a big house just 2 blocks away from the wedding and reception location.
Bride and Groom taking a rest at the end of the day.
I LOVE that my best friends, Ann, Luci and Linda, were able to attend the wedding!
My sister, Sandy, and I trying to dance with wounded legs. It was primarily upper body moves!

Dear Berry: We’ll miss you. In December, we made one more trip to Jacksonville . This visit was far less happy, as we said goodbye to a beloved friendBrendan’s loyal companion through the years, “Berry the dog” was getting old and sick: time to say goodbye. Brendan & Jule were really grieving. We were glad we could be there to support them and help a little bit.  

Berry was such a sweet dog. This was a really hard moment for Brendan and Jule.
Although it was a sad few days, we loved our time with Brendan and Jule. We wouldn't see them again before leaving on our travels in February.

In January, we took a road trip up to the Albany area to visit with some old (like us) high school friends, Sue Runkel and Linda Stevens – regular participants in our CCHS online Chat group. (CCHS = Colonie Central High School, class of 1970). We were even there for a significant snowfallWe also spent a lovely afternoon with Evan’s niece Beth Comley and the whole “Comley Clan.” Beth “requires” that her grown children, their spouses, and their grandchildren all show up for a shared dinner every Sunday afternoon. We were very excited to join them for their Sunday afternoon gathering and to meet the grown-up kids. What a lovely family! 

Evan is shoveling snow with Sue Runkel.
Out to lunch with our high school friends and two of our weekly Zoom call buddies, Sue Henry Runkel and Linda Bisognano Stevens. Since Covid, a group of friends, all former High School classmates , have been meeting over zoom. It was great to meet two of the local friends for lunch.

On February 19th, we left New Jersey on our way to Bangkok via Seattle. We headed to the east by flying west, first toward Seattle to visit Melissa and family in Bremerton. It’s been nearly three years since we’ve seen Donny and the kids. Back then little Myla was just approaching one year old.  We enjoyed a great visit, about eight days to spend time with Melissa, her husband Donny and their children, Devan (age 8) and Myla (almost 5). It was winter in the great northwest, cold with occasional snow, so we hunkered down and didn’t go out much.  But we know it’ll be much warmer as we head off to Southeast Asia.  

Because of Covid and our earlier travel, it has been a long time since we were with Melissa, Donny, Devan and Myla. We really enjoyed our week with them getting to know Myla and Devan again. Myla was just a baby and Devan was 5 when we were there last in 2019.
Before we left New Jersey, the family threw a "Going Away Party" for us. See you again in November 2023!